Mary Carol's Home...

Let The Tour Begin...


The Entry Way...


The Dining and Living Rooms...





The Kitchen...




The Back Porch...





The Girls...








Here she is...


Such a great day. Starbuck's...Shopping...Lunch...The Tour...THE CROWDS. In spite of the crowds and the lines of people...by the way, we were able to miss almost every long wait in line!!...it was fun to be with friends and enjoy a day admiring all of the beautiful decor. Always thankful for a girl's day out!

Mary Carol's Holiday Open House...

I am really looking forward to today. Mary Carol, the owner of Nell Hill's is having her annual Holiday Open House. I wanted to do this last year and as usual time just got away from me. However, not this year.

Starbuck's...Peppermint Mocha...and then off to Atchison with some of my best girl friends. Should be a great day. Here's a link to Nell Hill's. They have some great finds. Maybe I'll post a few pics later.

http://nellhills.com/

Clear Direction...

I know I've posted this before...on facebook. I was reminded of it the other day. While it makes me laugh...it also makes me stop and think.



This little worksheet showed up one day in Will's backpack. I'm sure the goal was to find the most direct route for the fireman. Like I said, this makes me laugh...how all over the place his route is. I've said that it just confirms how Larry is always telling me I need to map out my day a little better...to save on gas, etc. Looks like Will is following in my footsteps!

So, not only do I laugh at this...It's also a good reminder that when I'm taking matters into my own hands how all over the place I feel. Lost without a real sense of direction. When my focus shifts and I begin to rely on myself instead of God this is how I feel.

As I've been praying for clear direction...I'm also praying that God will give me everything I need to trust him and his guidance. Isaiah 42:16 says this...

"I will lead the blind by ways they have not known,
along unfamiliar paths I will guide them;
I will turn the darkness into light before them
and make the rough places smooth.
These are the things I will do;
I will not forsake them."


Trusting in His perfect plan and His guidance down these unfamiliar paths.

Wooo, Pig, Sooie...



Superheroes...

Just a few pics before it gets dark out. The kids have been asking how much longer until we can go trick-or-treating for at least two hours. Emma keeps hitting our stash of candy to pass out to trick-or-treaters, getting "the good stuff". Six bags of candy...hope it lasts. We run out EVERY year. After a couple of hours, I'm usually ready to flip the switch on the front porch light and call it a night anyway. Here are my little superheroes.

Supergirl and Superman...





Supergirl gone "rock star"...




Superman workin' his muscles...

Potato Head Pumpkins...

Well, this is a first...we didn't do the whole "pumpkin carving" thing this year. Instead we decorated them like Potato Head Pumpkins. Not only was it so much easier, but the kids really got a kick out of these little masterpieces. This year we didn't get to hear Will gag as we pulled out the insides of the pumpkins...nothing grosses him out like gutting a pumpkin. I think he prefers this technique.

Hope...

The One Year Book of Hope by Nancy Guthrie. Such an amazing book. If you are going through a really difficult time in your life....get ready to be encouraged.



I found this book on my front porch one day. A very dear friend had dropped it off when she heard about something difficult going on in my life. I have treasured it ever since. The pages in this book are filled with encouraging words and scriptures. In the past week I've been hearing how others have also been encouraged by this book during their time of sorrow or grief.

"Processing pain and embracing its lessons is a daily endeavor. Every day we need a little more light to illumine our darkness. That’s what I want the One Year Book of Hope to be for you—a daily dose of truth and comfort," Nancy Guthrie. Such an amazing testimony she has...and an example of how God can love us through the very rough times of life. Hope...I love that word, don't you? It's a word that drives me to the throne of God. He is my hope.

The Pumpkin Patch...















True or False...

I've been checking out so many blogs lately. I feel like I'm "dreaming" as I read through them. All of the great recipes, the fabulous family photos, the charming houses, oh and the beautiful "craft rooms"...wow. I find myself asking the question...I wonder if things are really that "great" for these people. It's so easy (and tempting) to make "life" look amazing in a blog. To want to portray things to be maybe even better than they really are. Not that things aren't pretty great, but just to "enhance" things...as if the real deal isn't post worthy. Maybe it's just me...it probably is. It's back to the whole "keeping up with the Jone's" kind of a thing.

I always wonder if others feel that way too, when you peek into the lives of so many...and only see the parts of life that we want to share. I don't want to "disrespect" my family nor would I want anyone else to their family. Nobody wants to put pics up of their kids doing the really crud things or take pictures to share that would indicate things can get a little crazy or out of hand. However, are we guilty of wanting to make things look better than they really were or are at times to try to win over some-one's approval. I'm guilty of that at times. It's something I really want to guard against here.

Also, feeling guilty about "envying" what I see in the lives of others...through their blogs. Crazy, I know. So, on the flip...I love reading those that seem to share a little bit of everything. Maybe it just makes me feel better about myself, or maybe it's because life isn't always so pretty. Ok, now that I got that off of my chest...sigh. Don't wait for some crazy post from me, with the house in complete chaos, or one of the kids in the middle of a tantrum. Or better yet, me in the middle of a tantrum! Just know that I'm going to try to be TRUE to who I am and who we are as a family.

Fall Is Here...

One of My very favorite times of the year, that's for sure. I love the smells, the colors, the activities, the decor, and the food...and not in that particular order. I can't wait to take the kids to the pumpkin patch, carve pumpkins, hit the cider mill in Louisburg, s'mores, hot cocoa, "Fall Festivals"...and more. So fun.


It's Official....We Have A Brownie

Emma decided to join the Brownie troop at school. She is SO excited. For most of the other girls in her troop this is their second year...Emma's first, so you know what that means? I'm going to be real busy helping a little Brownie get caught up on her badges! Also, if you want cookies, now you know where you can find them. Just give us a few weeks and we'll be hitting the streets. Nah, but she is looking forward to this BIG year...I am too.


A Little Birdie Told Me...

These little things are so fun. A friend brought them by the house the other day...they are called "A Little Birdie Told Me". Can I just tell you the kids are loving them! They each have one and then one for Larry and I to share. What we've been doing is leaving little notes in them for one another. So, that's why the name...A Little Birdie Told me. Cute, huh? I have really been getting a kick out of the notes that Emma's leaving for the rest of us. Melt my heart. Such a great idea. Thank you Shelly!

Birthday Bash at "Suck-e-Seese's"....

I can't believe that my little boy is turning four! As I always say, it's just going by so fast. It feels like I'm going from one birthday to the next. We had a fun time celebrating Will's birthday with family and friends at 'Suck-e-Sees's' as Will calls it. He just might be onto something with that. (You know, the place that we adults love to hate.) The kids LOVE going to Chuck-e-Cheese's. Can you believe that we actually had the place all to ourselves? It was great. Nobody else there for most of the party. Then the mob hit towards the end. Here are a few pictures as I tried my best to capture the day. I made the same mistake that I always make...I'm not in a single picture. I've got to do a better job of remembering to pass the camera to someone at some point. (Not that I WANT to be in the pictures...it would just be nice for the kids to know I actually attended their 'special' events)...


...Let's get this party started...





...Emma and Will...





...Molly's having fun...






...the only place where you spend about $15 to get a plastic ring...
...Emma having fun collecting tickets...





...PIZZA...





...singing with 'Suck-e'...





...make a wish...





...opening gifts...




...more gift opening....




...and we're done.

Oh The Madness....

I'm sure that many of you can relate. This is a glance at our family calendar. Yes, it's color coded. Is there any other way? I'm "orange". Orange you glad I told you that? Oh my...I'm sounding like one of those "annoying" riddle books the kids have. It's not a close up pic. I guess I'm not willing to be THAT open...




Does it resemble yours in some way? We keep it hanging inside a cabinet door...for our eyes only I suppose. As if we don't want to let anyone know WE ARE GOING NUTS! I have another big cork/dry erase board that holds everything I need so I don't have to rely on my memory. Memory...now that's another story. We try to guard our time as much as possible...many times we turn down the "fun" things to do because of the responsibilities or commitments we already have. We even limit the activities our kids can be a part of so that they aren't doing more than one thing at a time....another choice we've made to help slow things down a bit. It's not just the "business" of it all....it's what you lose when you replace it with "business" that bothers me most.

I try and remind myself that this is a season in our lives. When our youngest is in school then I can work during the day and Larry and I can stop the "tag team parenting". Between my evenings and his weekends it gets busier and harder than we'd like...as many of your households are too.

I try not to be a complainer and keep my eyes focused on God, not our calendar and the craziness. We are so fortunate to have good health, family close by, great friends, jobs, and not only our needs met, but so much more. So, as you can see...I'm fully aware that I really have nothing to complain about. However, I just have those days that I get overwhelmed and overloaded and lose sight of the good. Can you relate?

Will's Portrait....by Grandma Hayes

Here is the portrait of Will that my grandmother did a couple of years ago. Isn't it amazing?!?! She was 85 when she did this. You should see the photograph that she used to make the portrait...incredible. I wrote in the previous post that she has to prop her arm up on something that she put together so she can do these. When I say it's a "labor of love" it really is! Grandma did one of Emma too. It's a little harder to get to...so I left it in the frame. Again, she did a great job on her portrait as well. These are pieces of work that we will cherish forever.



87 and counting......

Today we celebrated my Grandmother's 87th birthday. She is in great health. You wouldn't believe that she is 87. I know the world looks very different than she remembers it as a child. I love to hear her tell stories about her childhood and how life was back then. Emma loves to visit her Great Grandma. We don't see her nearly enough...and when I do...I regret the time I've let pass without visits. She is a lovely woman and has so many great qualities. Grandma is a fantastic artist....STILL! I'll post a drawing she did of Will just a year or two ago. It's amazing...she has to prop her arm up when she does these portraits. Every great grandchild gets to have this labor of love. There are a crew of great grand-kids...Grandma had six of her own so, that leads to many grand-kids and greats. Happy Birthday Grandma...we love you.





I'll post Will's portrait next...

Kids in the Kitchen...

Do all kids love to be in the kitchen helping? I know mine do. Emma especially. She has a whole lot of her daddy in her when it comes to food. They talk about food, think about food, watch t.v. shows about food, look at pictures of food, cook food, and of course eat food. I like food...but I just want to eat it. Maybe if I thought about it more instead of eating it that would be better...not gonna happen. Anyhoo, when Emma found out that you can actually have a career as a "food critic" I think she about fell on the floor...."NO WAY" she squealed!! I am guessing that medical school might be out of her plan now. The kids made dinner last night...PIZZA! They have so much fun cooking...and they seem to eat a better when they make the food. If only the mess was a little smaller. Why do smaller people make bigger messes? I must admit...it is good to be in the kitchen together as a family. We all enjoy it...I just have to set aside my "must keep the kitchen clean" hat, and put on my "let's throw down the flour and let the dough pounding begin" poncho! ...



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Oh, and the pizzas were yummy! Leftovers for lunch...that's always nice.

New York Family Vacation...

I had someone ask me if I was going to post pictures from our NYC trip or not. Well, I had planned to do that....and for whatever reason (back to school for Emma, Emma's Birthday, Will starting preschool) I think it slipped my mind! Some days I am surprised I still have a mind that is functioning. Although, I don't think it's working as speedy as it used to. We did take a family trip out to New York. Larry's brother Bobby and his wife Josephine live in Long Island. It was nice to see them and of course a few of the sights while we were there. The kids had a FANTASTIC time...I can't believe that they kept up with everyone....but, they did. Emma was most excited about The American Girl Place and Central Park. Will could not get enough of the train and the subway...such a boy. I enjoyed hanging out with the family and seeing NYC through the eyes of children. It's a GREAT city and a great trip for a family! We made lots of memories....here is my attempt to sum up the trip...

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Looking forward to going back again...always something new to do in NEW YORK!

Preschool Time......

Again...I just can't get over how quickly the kids are growing. Today was Will's first day of Preschool. He was so excited last night that we didn't have to ask him twice to get ready for bed. He had his Buz Lightyear backpack set out and ready to take along with him for this very special day!! Will's teacher is AWESOME! Miss Leslie you are the best! Emma had Miss Leslie in Preschool too....she is so great with these little ones. I just love her and that Will gets to be in her class too. OF COURSE I took a few pictures to capture this big day! In the van on the way to school Will asked me...."Mommy, how long am I going to be small?"....I wanted to boo hoo, but found my "everything's amazing" mommy smile and answered..."Not long enough!"






















We celebrated the big day Pizza Hut buffet style! Will is asking when he gets to go back to school. Yeah, that's a great sign!

First Day in the Third Grade....














A Splashing Good Time....

It was a really hot day....guess that's what you want when you are having a pool party, huh? We had a fun time celebrating Emma's 8th birthday at the pool with family and friends. I can't believe that she is eight!! I know...that's what every parent says. It's true though....the time does seem to be flying by. Once they hit elementary school it's like one year just flows into the next and before you know it....SHE'S EIGHT!



Emma with friends... Avery, Annalee, Ariana, and Leah.


Icing melts rather quickly when it's almost 100°....


Audrey coming down after her sugar high...


Molly enjoying her food....

Happy Birthday Emma... EIGHT will be GREAT! We love you....

The Lake....

I said that I would post more about our time at the lake so here it is. We spent a few days at the lake (Heber Springs) with Larry's family. It's Larry's father's side of the family that have a house....no, not a house, not really sure the exact term... you'll see what I mean in the pictures below. It's pretty amazing when I think about it. Not amazing because of the way it's decorated or because it's bigger or better than anything you could imagine. The reason I say amazing is because it's a house that Larry's father and his siblings built to provide them with a place they could all come to and spend some time together. Larry Sr. (my Larry is obviously a Jr.) is one of I think....fourteen. One of fourteen...can you imagine? I can't. Well, I can't imagine having fourteen children, but I get an idea of the craziness and what it might have been like when we visit "The Rutledge Lodge" as my kids call it.

I admire this very large family for the way that they keep in touch and put a lot of emphasis on staying connected to one another. This house has provided the family with a great gathering place and given a lot of people some really fun memories! Yes, it's a busy place to be...Yes, you have to wait on a bathroom...Yes, it's not easy to sleep all packed in....Yes, it requires team effort and everyone doing their part to get meals ready and the kitchen cleaned up afterwards.... Yes, it takes a beating with that many people coming in and out (I've actually been there with about 75 other "Rutledges" at one time!). However, it serves it's purpose! It's purpose...to provide a place for a family of fourteen along with their spouses, children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren to be together and continue building great memories.

My kids love coming here to the lake and seeing their cousins. I laugh at my Larry when he sits and tries to remember who's who and what's the name of so and so's daughter, etc. Can you imagine trying to keep up with that many family members? My mom is one of seven and my father one of six....such "small" families they have in comparison to this one.

So, here are some pictures that might give you a better idea of how this whole thing works. By the way....you will notice there is ONE HUGE sleeping room and only TWO bathrooms! Sounds crazy I know....it is! In a good way. So kuddos to the Rutledges for making time spent with family (A BIG FAMILY) very important!

Larry and his cousin William cooking breakfast. Biscuits and Gravy always...and meat! Notice the can of Crisco on the stove...wouldn't be good southern cookin' without it!


Head down these stairs and the dirt path and you reach the water. This is where everyone is most of the time. The kids had a blast with the Sea Doo and boat...tubing.

The kids having fun with water balloons.


The back deck.


The BIG sleeping room. Yes, there are Queen size bunk beds that line the walls. Hand built...I guess that would be "customized" Queen Bunks.


The Living Room.....Otherwise known as "The Card Playing Room".

I know....you've never seen or heard of anything like it. That's why it's pretty amazing. Wanna go?

"Trike Nite" at church.....





The kids had so much fun cruisin' around at Trike Nite. Our Preschool Team at church does such an amazing job providing fun things for families to do together. Trike Nite was a hit and you couldn't have asked for better weather. A beautiful night hanging out with friends....very fun.